But... I am a real woman...

Happy Sunday afternoon everyone!

I don't know about you, but I love Sunday's.  There is this great laid back feeling that I get on Sunday, plus it is a day that I usually get to cook and clean a ton.  Yes, I am weird and I love both cleaning and cooking.


So for today's post I am going to talk about something that is very close to my heart and something that I have personally struggled with over the years.  Self-image.  I have always had a hard time with this concept.  Starting in grade school, I constantly compared myself to other girls and I could NOT understand why they were all tiny and thin and here I was all curvy and wearing bras.  Ever since that time I have always had a poor concept of how I look.  It didn't help that I bought into what the media said I should look like and to be honest that image is pretty much unattainable for any normal human being.  And that is what I want to focus on for the rest of this post.  But shockingly I am not going to spend my time bashing popular culture for bombarding young girls with fake, photo-shopped images (even though that is EXACTLY what they do).  I want to address the other side of this battle.  The "Real Women have Curves" movement.  First, I applaud all those out there who are doing what they can to counteract the unhealthy thinspo movement.  Eating and exercise disorders are at an all time high among young girls and that is not acceptable at all.  But at the same time, I have a problem with the phrase "Real Women".  That insinuates that if you do not have curves you are somehow not a real woman.  The fact of the matter is that woman come in every shape and size.  Some are tall and skinny, some are short and curvy and then there is everything in between.  By stating that to be thought of as womanly and sexy you have to have curves sends just the same unhealthy message to girls.  Some girls will never have the voluptuous curvy figure that is posted on these "Real Women" ads and that also leads to damaged self-image and unhealthy habits.  We need to celebrate woman. Period.  However they look, in whatever way they come.  We need to promote health over any certain body type.  Not all girls will be skinny, not all girls with be curvy, not all girls will be buff and athletic, but all girls can be healthy and learn how to take care of the amazing body they have been giving.  If someone had come up to me in 5th grade and said, "The way you are now is just fine, you are so much more than a body type", a lot of things might have been different for me.  And furthermore, I wasn't done growing yet! I had no idea that the body I had then would be a million times different than the one I have now, even without eating right and exercising.  There are girls out there who have no idea that they aren't stuck with what they have at that moment.  So let's give them hope and encouragement, and the tools to have the best self-image and life possible.  Real women don't always have curves and aren't always model skinny.  But Real Women are powerful and strong and amazing and can do whatever they put their minds too.  Let's spread that message around.  And not just to women.  Anyone can benefit from hearing that they are amazing no matter what they look like.  Have a great week guys and I will talk to you soon!

Katie

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Katie and I spent the last couple days catching up on some of the good food documentaries that have been released in the last couple years.  The first we watched was Food Matters.  This documentary talked about the wonderful powers of food.  It certainly illuminated some aspects of food that I had never thought about before and I would recommend anyone who is serious about their health and nutrition to check it out.  For those who want a teaser, it primarily talks about how eating healthy, whole foods can radically change the way your life works, and how modern medicine isn't broadcasting that message.

The other documentary we watched was a very uplifting film called Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead.  This film was about a man who had a debilitating disease which he took excessive amounts of medication for that really didn't help his problem.  So he consulted a nutritionist and decided to try a 60 day juice fast to cleanse his system of everything, lose weight, and try to beat back his disease in a way that modern medicine just can't keep up with.  He also meets and convinces a man on the road to try it out to save himself from the same disease and a lifestyle of extreme obesity.  It's a great film and really shows how radically changing a diet can help people alter their lifestyle.

Both of these films really gave both Katie and myself a desire to continue eating clean as a start.  Something we learned that we weren't aware of is that processed food has approximately 10% of the nutrients as the original article.  So that cream of broccoli soup in the supermarket is missing almost all of the nutrients it would have produced had you simply eaten a head of broccoli.  It also gave us a desire to reach out to our friends and family and try to encourage them to also eat healthy for their future.  All of the drugs that needed to be consumed for the problems associated with obesity presented in Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead cost around $500 a month without any insurance.  Not only is that not financially viable, but it cannot be good for your body to be warping it with all those drugs.  Considering that obesity is completely preventable (with a healthy diet) there is NO REASON to waste that kind of money.

So consider it official.  Katie and I have renewed our commitments to eat clean, but also to advocate for healthy lifestyles.  Go watch those documentaries, and think about your future.

*Both documentaries are available on Instant Netflix Streaming, as well as traditional sources.

Summer Weekends

Hello all! I hope that each and every one of you had as great a weekend as Adam and I did.  We had absolutely no obligations these past two days and it was great to just spend time together and not worry about getting one place or rushing to get something done.  It was also a great opportunity for us to get into the kitchen and make some really great summer dishes (of course all clean).  Saturday we had a little picnic and I made a chicken salad from leftover crock pot chicken.  I decided that there should be a rule that you can not make chicken salad using any chicken other than leftover chicken from some other meal because this one was that good!  That evening, Adam took over my kitchen (quite the miracle if you knew how protective I am of my kitchen...) and made a delicious gazpacho from Angela over at ohsheglows.com.  We added a side of sauteed zucchini and cantaloupe and it was a great summer dinner.  Sunday dinner was garlic tuna quinoa cakes, corn from our local farmer's market and more cantaloupe.  Yet another light and refreshing dinner.  I hope I am not making you guys too hungry, cause my stomach is starting to rumble!  It's weekends like this that prove it is possible to eat deliciously AND healthy.  Now that my recipe page is up and (sort of) running I will be able to give you guys some starting places to start making your own healthy meals.  That is one of the biggest joys and hurdles of eating clean.  You HAVE to make a commitment to prepare pretty much all of your meals.  Yes, that can be a daunting task, but it is also very rewarding.  And you don't have to be a world class chef to create meals that taste good and will fuel your body with the proper nutrition.  Believe me, I have really started to enjoy my time in the kitchen and the love and work that goes into making a great meal for me and the ones I love.  Hopefully you can get to that point too and then you will really start to reap the benefits of living a healthy lifestyle.  And as always, we're happy to help and give our advice on what has worked best for us.  I hope that your week is fantastic and you get the chance to enjoy the 4th! Until next time!

Katie


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